Division in the family is as unpleasant of an experience in this life more than anything else of which I can think. As unpleasant as it is, one must make a choice. “For from now on in one house there will be five divided, three against two and two against three. They will be divided, father against son and son against father, mother against daughter and daughter against mother, mother-in-law against her daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law against mother-in-law” (Luke 12:52-53, ESV). If one chooses wisely that which is unpleasant will result in immeasurable riches of eternity’s blessings.