Informing parents of a tragic accident that killed a child. Visiting in nursing homes that fail to keep patients properly cleaned. Funerals for infants and small children. Marriage counseling when one or both have no intention of saving the marriage or making any effort to change. (Past dreads?) Explaining to my kids why they couldn’t be dressed as well or do the things others could do because we didn’t have the money. Working with an eldership that was dominated by a head elder and resented by deacons and members. Waiting in line for government food supplements so as to have enough to feed my family.