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  • Eugene Adkins 3:14 pm on 2017-01-05 Permalink | Reply
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    What would you say if you were asked this by your child? 

    Last night, on our way to Bible study, we ended up driving part of the way behind a random driver (after pulling onto the road behind him). For some reason, one that only a young child could understand, my daughter asked, (More …)

     
    • J. Randal Matheny 5:44 pm on 2017-01-05 Permalink | Reply

      Great application.

    • Ocimar Luiz Anizelli 4:57 am on 2017-01-06 Permalink | Reply

      I would probably say how aimless my life would be Like without his presence in my life.

      • Eugene Adkins 5:32 pm on 2017-01-10 Permalink | Reply

        A purpose in life does tend to change one’s life doesn’t it?

        Thank you for commenting, Ocimar.

  • Eugene Adkins 6:59 am on 2016-12-01 Permalink | Reply
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    Here’s why you train up a child 

    Here’s a simple example of why it’s so important to repetitively teach young minds about God’s word: (More …)

     
  • Eugene Adkins 4:36 pm on 2016-07-17 Permalink | Reply
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    Sharing our mistakes with our children 

    I can’t tell you exactly how my daughter knows that her mother and I have had a few auto-accidents between the two of us (all of which, with the exception of one, were our fault and when we were practically teenagers); but one thing I can tell you for sure is that for some reason, she likes for us to tell her about them as we’re driving down the road.

    I know the kiddo has seen an accident or two on the road. Maybe after she saw one of the accidents she asked if we had ever been in any.

    I guess it doesn’t matter exactly why she originally asked. I guess what matters is that we chose to share our mistakes with her…after-all, she wouldn’t have known about them unless we told her (we know it wasn’t grandma or grandpa that let the cat out of the bag).

    I suppose it’s important for a Christian parent to share their mistakes with his or her child. Age discretion and maturity obvious play a factor as to the timing and details.

    I believe there are certain matters that should remain between ourselves and our judge. But I also believe that it’s important for a child to know why they can privately trust God’s grace by openly explaining to them why we, as parents, need to do the same thing. Think about the conversations that David and Solomon must have obviously had…or Solomon and Rehoboam when it came to relationships!

    I do not give this advice in order to hand a child an excuse as to why they should be able to be free to make the same mistakes as his or her parent – to the contrary! Sharing our mistakes with our children should be done in a way to help them understand why it’s important to follow the commands of our God and their God. For our goal as a parent must not only be to help them grow from young to old as our son or daughter; our goal as a Christian parent must also be to help our children become a brother or sister in Christ.

    My son, hear the instruction of your father, and do not forsake the law of your mother; for they will be a graceful ornament on your head, and chains about your neck. My son, if sinners entice you, do not consent.” (Proverbs 1:8-10)

    #learning-from-the-mistakes-of-others, #parenting, #raising-faithful-children

     
    • J. Randal Matheny 4:42 pm on 2016-07-17 Permalink | Reply

      It is good for parents not to pretend to be faultless. Important to own up to past and present mistakes, to ask forgiveness of children when they err. Good thoughts!

  • TFRStaff 5:37 am on 2016-06-24 Permalink | Reply
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    June 2016 Issue of Christian Worker (Strengthening Families) 

    Here’s a link to the latest PDF issue of the Christian Worker.

    Here are the topics that you will find:

    • Why Strong Families are Important (Ben Moseley)
    • A Solid, Spiritual Foundation (Cody Westbrook)
    • How to Create a Distinctly Christian Family (Glenn Colley)
    • Husbands, Be Husbands (Jon McCormack)
    • Wives, Be Wives (Luanne Rogers)
    • Training Our Children (Matthew Gibson)
    • Serve the Lord Together (Michael Bonner)

    Christian Worker is an edification effort of the Southwest church of Christ in Austin, Texas.

    You can subscribe to the email version of the Christian Worker paper by clicking on the publications link on their website and then following the given instructions…or by clicking on the link provided here in The Fellowship Room under the “Friends” category to your right.

    Copyright © 2016 Southwest church of Christ, All rights reserved.

     
  • Eugene Adkins 8:03 am on 2016-01-22 Permalink | Reply
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    The difference between making a mistake as a parent and failing as parent 

    Let’s face it; you can’t make it through life as a parent without making mistakes. And making mistakes as a parent doesn’t automatically equate to someone being failure at it…nor do the mistakes made by your children. But the two can be very closely related.

    Let me describe the difference:

    Your children making the same mistakes you did as a young person doesn’t make you a failure at being a parent. Your children making the same mistakes you did as a young person with your blessing makes you a failure at being a parent.

    Children are going to do things that are wrong – even when they know they don’t have the blessing of his or her parent. But for a child to gain a stamp of approval from a parent while they are doing something morally, ethically, financially or whatever is conceivably wrong is just plain wrong.

    Listen to this – the youthful mistakes of a parent does not give that parent’s child a right to make the same mistakes! A wrong from a parent’s past will remain a wrong for his or her child in the future. And we will fail as parents if we don’t understand this principle.

    Parents are there to be a guide for their children – a guide that hones the conscience by stepping in when a wrong decision is being made whether that child realizes it or not…and whether or not your conscience made the right decision when facing the same situation.

    There’s a world of difference between making mistakes as a parent and failing as a parent; but intentionally allowing our children to do the former puts us dangerously close to the latter.

    Now therefore, listen to me, my children; pay attention to the words of my mouth:” (Proverbs 7:24)

    And by the way – the above quoted words came from a parent who made huge mistakes in his life, and that’s why he gave his son the warning, not the approval, that he needed to hear when it came to the responsibility of making his own choices.

     
  • Laura 12:57 am on 2010-02-11 Permalink | Reply
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    God’s Mission for My Life 

    Guess I better answer this one before the next nudge comes out. 🙂

    My life’s mission is to serve God in humble obedience so I can live for eternity with Him. Part of that includes helping others find God and raising my children to be faithful servants of His as well.

    #children, #evangelism, #mission, #raising-faithful-children

     
    • Larry Miles 1:18 am on 2010-02-11 Permalink | Reply

      Great post–about putting your faith into action.

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