Scripture, Thought and a Prayer on True Friendship

Scripture: “He who covers a transgression seeks love, but he who repeats a matter separates friends.” (Proverbs 17:9)

Thought: The wise man isn’t talking about hiding sin from God. That idea is far from behavior that is considered wise (Proverbs 28:13). What the wise man is talking about is the idea that keeps friends close – an understanding that seeks to privately help instead of publicly embarrass when an error happens. To insist on repeating a matter instead of settling it, and allowing it to stay settled, is a course that breaks the friendship. It’s a course that gives life to the mistake much longer than it deserves, and in a much more severe way it gives life to a memory of betrayal to the other party involved. Repeating the matter is the opposite of love as the book of wisdom says. It is the opposite of godliness, as a man acquainted with sin would say (Psalm 32:1). And it is a guaranteed way to transfer guilt from the original offender to the speaker of the offense (James 4:11). Finally, it ignores the golden rule of true friendship – treat your friends the way you want your friends to treat you (Matthew 7:12).

Prayer: Father help us to see sin in the lives of our friends as you see it. Help it to be acknowledged and then covered; and give us the wisdom and the heart to keep it covered by keeping private matters away from the public. Help us to be friends that can be trusted. We know in many ways that we can offend those to whom we should be close, and that our tongue often leads the way, but help us to remember the truth that your word has spoken so that we may be a friend in a way that lives up to the standard of love and mercy and faithfulness that you have given to us.

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Time Sheet

Every now and again I will be asked what it is that I do during the course of the day. It was but a month ago that I decided to prepare my own “time sheet.” This was the result of one who asked me when I thought he should have known. Thus, this past Thursday (5/22) this is what I did. Perhaps this will be of interest for some, perhaps not for most. Every preacher is different and so would be their schedule of activities throughout the course of the day. There is some consistency to my days, but enough variety that flexibility is the norm.

THURSDAY: Arrived at 3:30am. Bible reading: 2 Kings 17-19, with textual study of 8:25-29 (4:41am). Bible reading: Isaiah 52-53, with textual study of 53:12, and working on article for Gospel Gleaner (6:04am). Nap (6:10-20am). Bible reading: Luke 11-12 (6:45am). Civic Center, return, shower (8:00am). Bible reading: Luke 13-14 (8:35am). Bible reading: Ephesians 1-4 (9:00am), 5-6 (9:38am). Read Gospel Advocate article on Mark 16:9-20 (9:10am). Nap (9:30am). Read a portion of the book “Like a Thief in the Night” (9:48am). Read research material on “616” of Revelation 13:18 for BVBID (10:03am). Bible reading: 1 Thessalonians 1-2, with textual study of 2:1-8 (11:06am). Bulletin for Sunday (12:15pm). Took church lawnmower to Lambdin, did some errands (1:15pm). Heading toward Bible Study in Hammond (1:30), Chuck Norris met me in Hammond to attend; we finished at 2:50pm.

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